The One Hundred Post...

Not much post in 2013....but very much things has happen indeed.... this is the most memorable year ever.. I got Dengue in March, I was sick and warded with slip disc in July, I'm gonna get married in October and move into my new house by end of the year (finally). Basically I've utilized all my 2013 leave entitlement except maternity leave... heeeee....

But my new employer has been very very understanding and supportive...When I was sick... even my Senior Mgr sms me and said "Don't worry about the office and have a good rest" Ada hikmahnya dapat kerja baru...I was also been able to be referred to Gleneagle for my un-aspect-ed illness..

and recently I'm super busy.... with lots of preparation that needs to be done...... of coz for my Big Day... Very soon I'm gonna be Mrs Hulk... Dengan izi Allah s.w.t., semoga segalanya berjalan dengan lancar... Amin... 

Source here

Things we need to take note once married (Source here) :

Tanggungjawab suami  (Hak Isteri)

1. Memberi nafkah zahir dan batin
2. Membayar mas kahwin kepada isteri
3. Memberi layanan yang baik
4. Menjaga maruah isteri
5. Memberi didikan agama
6. Memberi bimbingan dan tunjuk ajar
7. Menjaga dari sebarang ancaman
8. Adil terhadap semua isteri

Tanggungjawab isteri terhadap suami (Hak Suami)

1. Taat dan hormat kepada suami
2. Menjaga maruah suami
3. Memberi layanan yang baik
4. Memuaskan hati suami  dan menyenangkan pada bila-bila masa
5. Menjaga dan membelanjakan harta suami dengan sebaiknya
6. Tidak keluar rumah tanpa izin
7. Tidak mendedahkan kelemahan suami

Tanggungjawab bersama

1. Mengekalkan kerukunan rumahtangga
2. Memelihara dan menjaga anak-anak
3. Memberi pendidikan yang sempurna
4. Memberikan layanan yang saksama kepada keluarga kedua-dua belah pihak
5. Menyediakan rawatan dan perubatan
6. Menjamin keselamatan

Baby Sitter for the Weekend..

It was a very HECTIC weekend with my lil nephew.. Lil Luqy.. a 1++ year old cheeky boy with genius brains.. 

The reason I had to spent my weekend with Lil Luqy was because my elder Brother n Sis In Law had to attend a 2Days 1 Nite Event somewhere in Hulu Selangor.. (so they are not that far..if anything bad were to happen I can just ask them to come back home..and Syukur Alhamdulillah...nothing really bad happen)

Actually my Brother had set two Main task for me.. that is to babysit his son...and fetch our Maktok at my Uncle's House in Sg Buaya, Rawang... So the whole day of Saturday I spent in Rawang together with Lil Luqy and my Lil Brother.. and then after dinner we came back to my brother's house in Damansara..

That nite, I slept with Lil Luqy.. at first it was alrite.. but then it got worst when he woke up at 2am and thought I was his mommy... O.M.G!!! then luckily Bibik was there to cool him down.. then again he woke up at 4am again..crying..I think the boy really misses his mommy... poor thing..(I siap bukak Disney Channel for him to cool down... hehe sonok ekk dpt tgk tb pagi2 buta..)

But poor me too.. I got this really bad headache when I woke up this morning.. probably with the tiredness from driving plus I was not able to sleep well through the nite.. 

But as for Lil Luqy.. he was back to his Happy Mode.. this morning.. playing with his bicycle.. and gomol2 with us.. watching his Disney Channel... and not to forget... punggah his mommy's tupperware cupboard.. Poor Bibik...have to kemas back..

Luqy's Bicycle

 

Ni lagi satu.. pantang org bukak Laptop.. sibuk nk suruh kita bukak Youtube cari Elmo Song lah... Sesame Street Songs lah... ape2 jer lah... hehehehe.. Budak2 zaman IT lah katakan...

Minta2 la masa study pun camni nnt...AMIN!!

Lepas lunch td... I dah nk balik.. plus his parent pun dah on da way back.. and since ada my Maktok, I tak risau sgt nk tinggalkan Lil Luqy with Bibik.. On my way back, I drop my Lil Brother kat UM dulu... then baru balik to my HOME SWEET HOME...

Sampai jer umah..do some laundry.. and lepak depan Laptop tgk my tv series.. I was actually trying to get some rest...or should I say...sleep... hehehe...that was the main reason kenapa nk balik awal...hehehhe.. 

So Meet Erica Strange....

This is also one of my fav series...Yes in life we intend to regret on what has happen... and we kept on saying.. "If I could have chosen the other road... hmmm.." (then mengeluh)

The the real fact is that...

"Everything Happen For A Reason..."

and 

"Ada Hikmah Disebaliknya... "

So in this series, since she has never like her life.. and always regret on every single thing that she does... she was given a chance to go back to the past and face it if she were to choose the other road..and Yes it always turns out that what ever she choose earlier was best or was meant for her..

FaceLift..

 

Do you need a FACELIFT... ??

 

There's ONE that is FREE...
 
 

Always Handy..

 

Makes you look YOUNGER.. and

 

has NO undesirable SIDE EFFECT...
 
 

 

It's called a SMILE..

 

 

Why do we need to SMILE....

1. SMILE makes us feel confident in doing things..
   
2. SMILE makes us attractive..
   
3. SMILING is Contagious..
   
4. SMILING relief Stress..

Dance In The Rain..

(Source)

In life, especially our daily routine.. We intend to take it for granted.. just because its our normal routine.. Instead, the so called "routine" is the one that will determine our future.. Its like taking a ROAD TRIP.. if there is a HIGHWAY with straight road which you can speedup but not more then 120km/h.. And there's the other road which is the NORMAL WAY with bumpy road but nice village views/paddy fields views...but both brings you to your destination....WHICH ONE WOULD YOU CHOOSE?

The answer is... There is no fix answer.. because..

We should be the one taking control of our life.. deciding whats best for our future.... Not just letting it go loose and just letting life take control on us...

For example, if something happen to us..
what I notice is that we always let our self
DROWN with the problem..
when we SHOULD quickly find solutions..
It's OK if you don't want to react yet...
just put down some thoughts...
it is much worth than just crying
or thinking that you should die..
PLAN A, PLAN B or PLAN C???  

 

We now have to STAND UP and be in charge in every single decision of our life.. Plan as many plans as you wish... its also OK if any of your plans doesn't work...thats why you have other plans... it is much better then not to have ANY PLANS AT ALL! One more thing...Never say..

[Something will become known in the course of time]

 
If you don't take the lead in your life and just letting TIME to decide for you... One question..what if time decides to say bye bye... TIME flies away just like that... 

What if nothing will ever happen to you... no matter how long you wait... Won't you be wasting a lot of time and a lot of YEARS waiting?
This is as simple as...

I suppose its high Time for a change....

"Lets TELL what we achieve in TIME "

[Lets achieves as much as possible as time passes us by]

STOP sitting around waiting for gold to drop... and STOP blame God is not on ur side or Life is never good to you and things like that... You have to work for it... 

Although there is this HIGHWAY that I mention earlier which you can take just by not exceeding the 120km/h speed limit...but still!! To get on the HIGHWAY, you have to be the BEST AMONG THE BEST.. meaning to say... to be selected to go on the HIGHWAY.. you can't be driving an old cabok car with black smoke coming out from the ekzos... on the HIGHWAY...  (mampus abang JPJ tahan nnt) Yes.. there is no SHORTCUT in life... you have to decide.. your way... your paint... Your Life..

Every step needs EFFORT..

Keep on trying.. and Never be afraid of falling... 

The best is to have the right attitude..

The Importance of a Positive Attitude..read here

And above all, be STRONG in everything that you do...

Life is simple actually... it complicates when WE press the wrong buttons...

 

p/s: This post is just a general post reminding me about life.. Tiada kena mengena dgn yg HIDUP atau yg MATI... (*~_~)

Thankful... and Blessed...

It has been such a wonderful journey throughout my 27 years in life..  How time flies... 

My Life is best describe as COMPLICATED.. that was how Ms J always describe it...  oh btw, Ms J is my cousin a.k.a my shadow (who i only met when we were in the same class, in standard 4)... Yes Ms J, I know you were just trying to tell me that someone was talking in the class... but I end up writing your name in my book...since I was the Class Monitor at that time... hehe.. pitty her... terus merajuk...hehe itulah detik2 perkenalan kami...sampai la i dapat tahu yg she is my far far far cousin... 3 pupu...ok enuff about her... now back to me...

Yes, my life have been such a drama since the day I was born... One day during Diwali Celebration, my Dad went out with his frenz and brought my Big Brother to Uncle Rj's house to have tossai...(no wonder i love tossai too..hehe).. Whereas my Mommy pulak tak nak ikut.. she just wanted to rest at home.. So my Maktok teman her at home... me?? Yes i dalam perut Mommy la at that time...hehe... 

But then tetiba jer... tengahari tu... my Mommy dah rasa sakit... but Dad pulak tak balik-balik lgi... But paham2 jer la....27tahun yg lalu...mana la ada handphone segala bagai...mana la boleh call kan..sms lg la hampeh...so without wasting anymore time... my Mommy make her own decision...to drive herself to the Hospital... sib baik Dad xbawak kete... let me just inform you this... at that time.. my Dad owns a Nissan Sunny (kaler merah) MANUAL GEAR & NOT POWER STEERING.. plat no.. KQ 3951.. Jarak Hospital n rumah kampung Maktok tu 30 minits gak la... Jalan Kampung...faham2 la..

My Mommy terus jer drive and park depan Emergency Room...  left the car there and walk in..  terkejut beruk nurse2 kat situ... so diaorg terus bawak dia masuk...n terus bersalin.... Maka lahirla seorang baby yg tersangatlah comel bernama.."Gebera" -wink2-

What happen to my Dad?? yes.. bila dia balik dari Diwali baru dia tahu yg wife dia xdak kat umah...n dah p Hospital SENDIRI....terkejut gila my Dad...hehehe

I couldn't have ask for more... Everything that have happened and everything that I have face through, I feel Thankful and Blessed... I have been and will always hold to this prinsip.. 

Everything Happen for a Good Reason,
It's just how you look at it and face it...

No matter how difficult the problem you are facing just remember this... There are no problem without solution.. Its all just dugaan... and one more thing... someone once told me this... "Allah will never test you more than you can handle.."  That means if the test was meant for you... it means that Allah knows precisely that you can handle it...

The pengorbanan that my Mommy had gone through just to ensure that i get the chance to live... turns me into someone just like her... who is Brave, Independent, Positive and Strong. Thanks Mommy!

By the way.. someone mail this to me earlier this morning... and it is sooo true...

"Life never seems to be the way we want it,

But we have to live it the best way we can.

There is no perfect life,

But we can always fill it with perfect Moments..."

Bye-bye 27..... Hello 28....